It’s always difficult when you have kids to consider. According to Canadian Family Association, there has been a higher number of families moving from city to another every year. Reason varies per group, some reasons have something to do with profession, while others are personal preferences. Whatever the reason of you moving out, moving anxiety is one of the things you need to be prepared for especially if you have kids.
Talk to Your Kids Way Ahead Before the Move Date
The last thing you want is them throwing tantrums on the scheduled move date. The best way to deal with this is to have a serious talk about it. As much as possible, let them understand the whole situation without masking it with online shops like Lazada and Zalora and other material things just to make them feel better. Be honest with your kids even if the motivation of the move is undesirable like bankruptcy, foreclosure, etc.
Highlight The Perks
Here’s another important factor of the talk with your children, you have to highlight the perks. It could be a better environment where they could play and run freely or a new school with better facilities. Give them something to look forward to from the new place. It could better rooms for everyone and other simple things like offers & coupons offered by the nearby candy store. It doesn’t matter how big or small.
Address the Emotions
If your children are throwing some resistance towards the move, know that this is natural. All you could do is to address each emotion just the way a parent should do it. It is important that you calmly deal with the situation and not respond with anger. Assure your children that you are in this together as a family, and you’ll be there for them no matter what.
New Home Wish List
Let them have a say on what they want for a new home. And if the time permits it, take them with you in open-house showrooms. If you have already had a place to move, ask them what decorations are great, what color they prefer, and so on. You can also involve them to shop online using discounts for new home equipment and furniture. By involving them, it creates a simple way of bonding while helping them cope with their moving anxiety.